Thursday, August 27, 2015

What Kind Of Man One Should Marry




What kind of a man one should marry? After being married for almost three-and-a-half years, I would like to believe I'm an authoritative figure on these matters. Sister-in-law is going through "boy-seeking' phase of her life and constantly worries about whom she is going to get married. So, dear S, scroll down and look out for these kind of guys.
  • Who isn't afraid to hold your hands in front of elders.
  • Who compliments how beautiful you are every single day.
  • Who devours on food cooked by you and praises no matter how it really tastes.
  • Who pulls your hair back when you are puking your gut out after getting way too high.
  • Who is empathetic about your PMS'ing.
  • Who offers you his morsel of food in a fancy restaurant.
  • Who perfectly understands why you want to have a piece of chocolate or snack after each meal.
  • Who recognizes your period time and gives an amazing hot water bag massage.
  • Who respects your parents and tells he will maintain a relationship with them even after your death.
  • Who encourages your talent and nurture it.
  • Who coax you to try all kinds of trendy apparels.
  • Who makes you feel secured with cuddling.
  • Who is considerate to your pleasure before his own.
  • Who hugs and kisses at the drop of hat.
  • Who works his ass off for you to have the best of everything possible.
  • Who cares for your family as his own.
  • Who just smiles at your craziness after intoxication.
  • Who holds you tight when you are bawling like a baby.
  • Who still thinks you are hot with messy hair, unplucked eye brows, tattered pajama.
  • Who apologizes graciously if he is at fault.
  • Who helps you finding that perfect little dress you are eyeing for.
  • Who makes you laugh until you cry.
  • Who says 'I love you" a thousand times a day. Well, kidding, minimum 25 times.
  • Who shares equal responsibilities in running the household.
  • Who considers you an equal in marriage, not beneath.
  • Who genuinely loves spending time with you rather than a boy's night out.
  • Who stands up for you to the pesky relatives.
  • Who patiently listens to your rants and ramblings without being judgmental.
  • Who is a staunch feminist.
  • Who he brags about your teeny-weeny accomplishments.
PS: I'm truly blessed to be married to this amazing guy who is the "WHO"of this post. I can't thank enough of my lucky stars. Touch wood.

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